Reintroducing a female German Shepherd to her brothers after her heat cycle

Well it’s been a whole month. I gave See See a bath to get all of the heat cycle smell off of her. It’s time to reintroduce her to her brothers. Her brothers have continued to get along famously. I am so proud of my two boys who get along so well with each other. Winston, the blackest one, is 3 years old and an older half brother to Clyde and See See. Clyde, with the red collar, is 17 months old. See See is Clyde’s littermate and is the smallest. She just finished her second heat cycle, right on schedule.

See See fetching a stick right after her bath
Winston got to greet See See first. He was more interested in the ball I think! That’s Clyde whining in the background.
I intended to let Clyde out with See See without Winston. But as soon as I opened the door to the dog room, Clyde JUMPED OVER Winston and OPENED THE SCREEN DOOR to go see his sister. So then Winston went on out too before I could even react. I needn’t have worried. Winston let them re-establish their relationship with no interference.

SPECIFIC ideas for helping dogs who are afraid of fireworks and thunderstorms

We’ve all heard ideas about turning on the radio and giving our dogs tranquilizers when they are showing anxiety during thunderstorms or fireworks. Sometimes these ideas work just fine. Because I’ve heard from lots of people about their dogs getting upset lately, here’s some fine tuning of those ideas and some additional ones that might work for your dog. I will break it down into how to prep your dog way before, what to do right before an anticipated event like a fireworks display, and what to do during the fireworks or thunderstorm.

The problem: Dogs can be triggered by the flash of lighting as a precursor to the loud noises that disturb them so much. Also they can be tuned into the electricity that’s in the air. Or it might be the randomness of the sounds and the pitch of the sounds that are most troublesome. As a result, their anxious behavior is at best annoying, and at worst destructive and worrisome. Dogs that would never dream of running away from home can find a way out of that fenced yard when they are terrified. They can destroy doors, furniture, windows, and floors. Hopefully, your dog was well socialized as a puppy and is used to loud noises and storms, but sometimes as dogs get older they become more sensitive, or they are rescues and you have no idea about their background.

How can we help manage their anxiety? There is no quick fix. But here’s how to do the best we can for our beloved pets.

Way Before: How to prep your dog

Really, desensitization to loud and visual stimuli should begin in puppyhood as part of the socialization process. It should begin with the breeder and continue for the life of your dog. But let’s assume you are on this page because you already have a problem, and you are looking for some help.

When there are no fireworks or thunderstorms, and you have control, you can desensitize your dog by playing a recording of fireworks and/or thunderstorms. Play it very low, below the threshold where it causes a reaction in your dog. Over a period of weeks, make it louder and louder. While it is playing, observe your dog and interact with him normally. If you observe a reaction, turn it back down until the reaction subsides. Over time, this will reduce his anxiety reaction during actual fireworks and thunderstorms. But this doesn’t work 100% of the time, in fact, nothing does. If it were that easy, everyone would know the answer. Read on for more ideas. There are lots of good recordings on YouTube. This requires the biggest time commitment from you.

Teach your dog basic obedience commands or tricks. This can be simple things like heel, sit, stay, come, down, shake hands, rollover, etc. Teach these things when your dog is calm and not during a scary event. Do it on your own or take a class. Don’t send your dog away for training. You are the leader of the pack. Make sure training is fun for your dog. Make sure your dog enjoys learning, gets lots of praise for doing things right, and builds a bond with you. It’s important that your dog knows he’s doing something right and will be rewarded for doing it.

Do fun active things with your dog on a regular basis. There should be at least one activity that your dog will look forward to and know is going to be fun. My dogs’ favorite thing is fetch. My German Shepherds are natural retrievers, and I did not need to teach them to play fetch, I’ve just encouraged it. If you are not that lucky, you can teach fetch, or even if your dog is just chasing things and you have to go pick them up and throw them again, at least it will tire your dog out. Just have lots of things to throw! And that’s the point, you want your dog to be able to do something fun that will make him tired. This might be going for a long walk, a jog, or letting him play with other dogs in your yard with supervision. Tug of war is a good interactive game that builds a bond with your dog. However it is not a good game if your dog tends to be alpha or aggressive. Do not play this game if your dog is likely to bite or even if you just suspect that he might try to become dominant over you. Make sure that if you play this game, your dog knows when it’s over and you keep the tug toy.

Just like with people, exercise reduces anxiety. A dog that uses his body regularly will be calmer in situations that provoke anxiety.

Get your dog used to grooming. Even if you have your dog professionally groomed on a regular basis, get a decent brush with bristles that go down to the skin and get him accustomed to grooming. This will help calm him during an anxiety provoking event.

Right before a storm or fireworks

Do the fun thing! Make sure your dog is tired. This will reduce his anxiety. But don’t make him too tired. Because you’re going to play again during the event. Go ahead and turn on the radio and all the lights in the house. Turn the TV on. Do other loud things in the house like run the vacuum cleaner if that by itself is not disturbing to your dog. Make sure your dog has eaten that day, but not right before the event. Sometimes dogs get nervous and throw up from anxiety.

Important indicator of Anxiety: Appetite is a good measure of anxiety. A really anxious dog won’t eat anything. So if your dog will take a treat that’s a step in the right direction, it means he’s not really overly anxious. If you can get anxiety down to that level, try a treat toy, like Kong, that is made to encourage the dog to work at getting a treat out of the inside of the toy.

Rather than just turning on the radio as background noise, think about what type of music might be best. If your dog is triggered by the pop-pop-pop sound, the low rumbling sounds, or the high pitch sounds of fireworks, try finding some heavy metal music that matches those sounds and can help those sounds to blend in. Obviously you don’t want to turn on the radio to music that your dog will react to. But somehow if the noise is coming from inside the house on the radio, dogs generally accept this better than noises outside the house. So, assuming your dog is in the house, turn on the radio to music that has random beats and high and low pitched noises. At the same time turn on the television and this will add to the randomness of the pattern. Also the random patterns of colors on the TV screen can help the fireworks blend in. Experiment to find out what works best for your dog. I recommend using actual radio and TV rather than tablets computers, or phones. Why? Because you might want to use your phone or computer for something else, and you don’t want to stop the lights and sounds right when it’s needed the most.

Why have all the lights on in the house? Having all the lights on in the house minimizes the contrast of the bright lights flashing outside the house. This works well in a thunderstorm too. Plan for the power to be out! Have a camping light and a battery operated radio at hand.

During the Fireworks or Thunderstorm

The lights and sounds are on already! Do the fun thing again! If your dog can only do the fun thing outside, try going outside, even if the noises are louder out there. Sometimes, but not always, the game is so fun they forget about the noises. Also, strangely, it seems like when they know where the noise is coming from they’re not as afraid. I’ve noticed that with my Jane. If she’s inside and hears the noises, she comes pawing at me, as if to say, “Something is wrong. Make it stop”. But if we go outside in the storm she’ll walk calmly along sniffing and peeing like she always does. Of course this doesn’t work if it’s pouring buckets, but it helps her adapt to the sound as the storm is coming in. When we come back in, she is fine, as if I answered her question, saying, “There’s nothing wrong dear, its just the weather, and I’m fine with it.”

Doing obedience during fireworks can work wonders. Your dog will learn what to expect: praise and treats, and all he has to do is do something right. This gives him a feeling of control and gives you something to do too. Remember not to act afraid yourself. Do some things you normally do. Don’t let the storm stop you. If you try to cuddle your dog, your dog will interpret this as you are afraid too and clinging to him, adding to his anxiety.

If you’re staying inside, play the games as best you can. This is where your obedience will come in handy. Practice heeling, tricks, whatever. Heeling is a great one when dogs are very clingy and follow you around when they are scared. Put the leash on inside the house and heel around the dining room table and over to the other side of the bed. Everywhere. Just make it fun and happy. Give lots of praise for doing anything right, even if it’s a simple thing your dog has done for years, like sit. This gives the dog a feeling of knowing what is expected, doing that thing, and getting rewarded. In other words, a sense of control.

Does your dog shiver and run to the bathtub and get in, beside, or under the bathtub during a thunderstorm? This might mean he’s reacting to the static electricity in the air. Get some dryer sheets and rub them on your dog. This actually helps some dogs but others not at all. It’s worth a shot. If you have cats that lick your dog, do not do this.

Does your dog lean against you and paw at you and pant heavily? Does it try to get up in your lap and curl up next to you? Try one of those Thundershirts that they sell at pet stores or on the internet. Also a t-shirt that’s taped on or tied on firmly can help with pressure.

Another trick is grooming. Using a brush that gets down to the skin with firm strokes can help a dog with generalized anxiety. A dog that merely tolerates grooming might really like it when anxious. Sort of like a kid with autism, sometimes the tactile stimulation is helpful and redirects the mind. This is better than just hugging your dog. You don’t want to praise pawing and jumping on you, but rather redirect him to hold still for grooming.

What about crates? For some dogs, being in a crate is a safe haven, and they will seek it out as a refuge. Others want to be with the family “pack”. So if a crate works, great. Try leaving the door open, and make sure there is something comfortable to lay on, and maybe a chew toy.

Yes, another alternative is medication. However, veterinarian prescribed medication is only good for once in a blue moon. You don’t want to give it the whole week that people in your neighborhood are shooting off firecrackers, or in thunderstorm season, in certain areas of the country, where you’re likely to have one every evening.

There are some anxiety medications that can be helpful that are over the counter in pet stores, and of course on the internet. Most of them will have something like valerian, an herbal anxiety treatment that is available made for dogs in a chewable tablet, or made as a tea or capsule for people. (I can tell you that the tea taste like dirt. Maybe dogs would like it!) Tryptophan ia another common ingredient, as well as chamomile. It’s best to use the type made for dogs so you get the dosage right.

What if all this fails? What if your dog is such a basket case that it won’t even sit or take a treat, let alone play a game? What if despite the radio, tv, and bright lights in the house, your dog is still shivering and shaking and hiding under the bed? Is it possible to just avoid everything? Here’s one more idea. Go for a car ride. Best to have a car that’s loud, an old one that rattles a little bit or has a loud motor. Turn the radio on and just drive around. I know, gas is expensive, and you’re driving around at night, which is not the greatest. But sometimes this will soothe the dog and they will actually fall asleep in the car. Kind of like a crying baby that won’t go to sleep. Of course this is only going to work if your dog is already adapted to car rides!

I hope this has been helpful. Please comment if any of this has worked for you, or with other ideas that have helped your dog.

Sitting at home with Covid

The older dogs are trying to entertain me while I am sick with Covid, See See is in heat, I’m missing a 4 day dog show weekend, and the Supreme Court just overturned Roe v. Wade. Not listed in order of importance.

Notice that my dogs are not fighting over anything. Not position, toys, or proximity to me. That’s Johnny on his back.

I’ve been watching the Jan 6 hearings, and I can’t help but think that this is a well timed release of a decision by the (currently) conservative Supreme Court in an effort to remind the public about what the Rebublican party stands for, and to simply deflect the news media from their coverage of the hearings. The hearings are making some Republican congressmen look bad in addition to the former president.

After the release of the decision, President Biden asked, pleaded really, for the American people to demonstrate peacefully on both sides of the issue.


Unserlieben Stonewall was born June 23rd, 1993, 29 years ago today. He came into my life at 7 weeks of age, on my 8th wedding anniversary, August 16, 1993. I got him from a breeder in Michigan, and he had the best temperament and trainability of any dog I have ever known. Wally is the sire of Jane and Johnny, and the grandsire of Winston, Clyde, and See See. Wally is why I breed. I loved him beyond reason.

Unserlieben Stonewall (Wally)
The one who started it all
The one who stole my heart
My first GSD
Wally on our back porch in Columbus, Ohio, around 1996.
Wally’s dam, Am. Can. Ch. Unserlieben Aphrodite, with her handler, Joe LaRosa, in Pontiac, Michigan
Wally’s sire, Am. Can. Ch. Unserlieben Harrigan, with his owner, Karlien Bennett, in Michigan, near St. John

See See is in heat again, rescuing, and the importance of spaying and neutering!

No, I am not breeding her this heat cycle. See See is only 16 months old and has not been x-rayed yet. She must be 2 years old in order to get certified by OFA, greatly reducing the likelihood of having puppies with bad hips or elbows.

The household is in upheaval. Having 3 intact males in the house is crazy. I am grateful that Winston and Clyde get along so well. Johnny cannot be in the same room with them, so he gets to stay with his mother and sister, Nellie and Jane, who are both spayed.

Last night, no one was sleeping. I was desperate for sleep as I hadn’t slept well for the past few nights. I gave all three boys Benadryl, and took some myself. I could still hear them clawing at the doors. (My doors are a mess! If I ever sell this house, I have to replace the doors.) Finally, I turned on the TV in my bedroom to just drown out the noise. The tv station played a test emergency signal at 11am that awakened me. I slept a few hours at least.

Turns out, the Benadryl had a delayed effect on Johnny. He is still sleepy. He ate very little yesterday, and nothing so far today. Here he is, sacked out on the futon.

Johnny, on Benadryl
Winston and Clyde aren’t eating either. At least they are awake.
See See in my bedroom, away from the boys. She ate a little bit. She is on the 8th day of her cycle. Days 9-13 are usually the most fertile. Johnny, Clyde, and Winston say today is the day.

Intact males and females have very strong instincts to mate, and keeping them intact indefinitely is causes a great deal of stress unless they are bred. And allowing them to breed without concern for what happens to all the puppies is just cruel.

Please get your dog spayed or neutered. Remember, that for the health of your purebred GSD, wait until your dog is two years of age. This will prevent bone development problems. GSDs are the only breed with this recommendation to delay spaying and neutering until age 2 years.

Sunday, I participated in a Rescue “leg” of a journey from Alabama to Maine. I transported 7 lab mix puppies and their mother from Richmond to Springfield VA, just south of DC. They were going to less crowded shelters where they had a better chance of being adopted. This is just a drop in the bucket of all the efforts that volunteers went through to keep these and many other dogs and puppies from being euthanized. Please be responsible and kind to your pet by spaying and neutering.

The puppies mother got to see them for a bit, and then she rode in a separate crate in the van. This lady kept the mother overnight at her home in Richmond and delivered her to the transfer site for transport.
Two of the lab mix puppies I transported
Three of the 7 lab mix puppies I transported

If you would like to overnight dogs or puppies or transport them along interstate 95, contact Doris at 678-468-2524. She is the amazing coordinator for the rescue/transport group.

VKC dog class, last night

It was a small class because the Fishersville shows are this weekend, and people are bathing, grooming, and loading up. I’ve got See See, Liz has Clyde, and Ashley has her dog. Thank you Michael for shooting the video!

Notice how Clyde and See See are so distracted by each other! Very evident in this video that Ashley’s dog has lots more angulation than mine.

The T pattern in conformation at Virginia Kennel Club class

The T pattern is rarely seen anymore in the AKC ring. But, ya gotta be prepared for anything the judge throws at ya. Thank you Bob, for “judging” this nearly all GSD class, even though you are a sporting dog judge. Thank you Michael, for shooting the video.

Me and See See
Thank you Liz, for doing such a great job with Clyde on the T
4 GSDs in class!

Grandma’s China cabinet, Dad’s duck, Mom’s dishes, and playful puppies

Notice how calm Winston is while Clyde and See See are tumbling around.

My grandmother lived near Birch River, WV, and a man from the area built the cabinet from local cherry wood for her. My father killed the duck when he was a boy in Putnam County, WV. He never killed anything again. It was preserved by his taxidermist uncle. My mom collected vintage Fiestaware. Some of it was purchased by my aunt in the Boston area for my mom’s birthday and Christmas.

The puppies have no idea how careful they have to be. I trust the older dogs loose upstairs with the cabinet, but I watch the puppies carefully when they roughhouse nearby. As meaningful as the stuff is, if I had to pick between the stuff and the puppies, I would definitely pick the puppies.

A blast from the past, and future plans.

I’m getting a water neutralizer (my water is too acidic and it’s eating up my pipes) so I had to clean out a storage area in my house. I ran across these pics and decided to share.

My first dog, Silver, a Norwegian elkhound, with my dad in 1985.
Wally: Johnny and Jane’s sire, and Winston, Clyde, and See See’s grand sire. About 1996. I love his kind eyes.
Wally playing in a muddy field in Columbus, Ohio, about 1998.

Wally was my “heart” dog. The smartest thing I ever did was have his semen collected at Ohio State University when he was 5 years old. I lost half of it when a storage unit failed at the vet practice where I had Nellie implanted with it. But I still have enough for several breedings. It is now stored at Zoetis. I plan to use it again with See See.

See See is 25% Wally. Bred to Wally, her puppies will be 62.5% Wally. I can’t wait.